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Justine Lee | Bringing America Together One Conversation At A Time
This week on Borderless, join our host Vale Sloane as he sits down with Justine Lee of Living Room Conversations and Make America Dinner Again. Through these organizations, her mission
How America Can Rebuild the Community Bonds It Needs to Face the Next Pandemic
As the Omicron variant spreads across the globe, we are reminded again that a pandemic is a disease of populations, not of individuals, and population-level problems require collective solutions. This
Opinion: Candidates, keep it clean! The exhausted majority is asking
On December 31st, as I uncorked champagne with my family, my stomach suddenly clutched with dread. For the first time, I feared the turning of the new year. Other new
Bay Area groups pivot in effort to bridge politics
Chris Collins had only been attending Glide Memorial Church in San Francisco for a few months when, after the 2016 presidential election, he asked the congregation if anyone would be
Healing family divisions from the trauma of 2020 starts with listening to people you disagree with, experts say
Brialle Ringer is a racial equity partner of Living Room Conversations, an organization that facilitates community conversations to help people bridge their differences and understand each other. She has seen the power
How to answer Joe Biden’s call for unity without compromising your values
Like many progressives, I cringe when I hear the word “unity.” In his Inaugural Address, President Joe Biden told Americans: “This is our historic moment of crisis and challenge, and
Ripe for change: We have prime opportunity now to protect American democracy
Now is our best chance to scale up the efforts of organizations working to bridge divides because so many people are feeling the pain of bad outcomes. The insurrection on
America’s future is dark unless we start working together and caring about each other
It has become normal to disrespect and even dismiss the humanity of people we don’t agree with. This is dangerous and at odds with our ideals. I first became involved in
How I learned to stop judging and start listening to people with different political views
Our limited exposure to each other this Thanksgiving makes it easier to practice the skills that can repair the fractures between us. Shannon Mannon Opinion contributor With the rifts exposed
How to Meet New People, Even at a Distance
Online and offline platforms are helping strangers form social connections, which are crucial for our health, especially in a pandemic. A retired teacher, a Midwestern minister and a mother of
Election 2020: 11 Ways to Engage Students From Now Until November
Though election news will dominate the headlines all summer, the global pandemic has thrown into question everything from how the candidates will campaign to whether there will be live conventions
How civic groups are using online tools to fight social isolation in pandemic
As the COVID-19 outbreak continues to upend American life, social lives are vanishing. Coffee shop dates have been traded for quarantines, face-to-face meetings exchanged for physical distance. Real conversations and
Guest Commentary: Being Together, Apart
The physical distancing necessary to slow down the spread of the coronavirus puts us at higher risk for another serious health concern: social isolation. Long before the coronavirus crisis, America had
Political Diversity and the Wisdom of Boos
Editor’s Note: See John Gable’s take on this event here. Over the past decade I’ve been a regular attendee at the Wisdom 2.0 Conference in San Francisco. It’s an annual gathering
Here’s how technology can help reduce political polarization
The internet can be used to help reverse political and social divisions instead of pulling Americans farther apart. “They voted for Trump, so obviously we can’t talk about anything.” “There’s
Talking About Politics? An Electronic Olive Branch That Works
Since the 1980s, seven of my high school classmates get together annually to watch the Super Bowl, play poker, and drink beer. We spend even more time talking these days,
In 2020, Our Bitterly Divided American Needs to Recommit to the Golden Rule | OPINION
As we move full speed into the election of 2020, we can feel the pull toward division, domination and revenge in our politics. We write this as two veterans of
Yes, You Can Change Someone’s Mind
But facts alone won’t do it, researchers say. Here’s something fascinating about stories that recount a major change of heart. Like the one of C.P. Ellis, a White member of
The Media Gets It Wrong About Healing America’s Divide
A recent article, Can Marriage Counseling Save America by Andrew Ferguson, is a marvelous article about Better Angels, an organization that offers people facilitated opportunities to listen to each other across
Here’s how to avoid family drama when talking politics over Thanksgiving dinner
Mediation expert Mary Gaylord offers 3 tips to keep everyone seated until dessert With election day inching closer, politics will undoubtedly be a dish served hot during Thanksgiving dinner. For
Can Democrats and Republicans Understand Each Other? It Starts With Getting Off Twitter
WITH TWITTER SCREEDS AND ONLINE SPATS, IT’S GETTING HARDER TO COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER. LIVING ROOM CONVERSATIONS HAS A WAY TO GET US LISTENING AND LEARNING AGAIN. A liberal and
Joan Blades on the power of a few to shift culture through conversation
Joan Blades references ‘The 3.5%’ Rule’ at the end of our conversation. Political scientist Erika Chenoweth at Harvard found that just this sliver of the population, if effectively mobilized through non-violent
What Queer Eye Can Teach Us About Bridging Divides
“If you voted for Trump, unfollow me.” Most of us are familiar with this sentiment. It is common for people to not want to be associated with those whose values
Time to boost conversations that create local and national connections
Blades is co-founder of Living Room Conversations, which organizes gatherings designed to increase understanding and reveal common ground. Thought experiment: What if all the leaders in Washington decided tomorrow that climate
Digital Dialogue Reflection: Conversations about how Technology Impacts Our Relationships
The first week of June, David Jay of the Center for Humane Technology and I co-hosted a Living Room Conversation about how technology is impacting our relationships, a conversation titled Digital Dialogue. Conversation participants were
Talk to people you don’t agree with—you can even start in your own living room
In polarizing political times, it’s far too easy to self-segregate based on political beliefs. The nonprofit Living Room Conversations encourages neighbors to open up the lines of communication. Joan Blades
5 ways to talk about the news with people who disagree with you
SALT LAKE CITY — We are constantly surrounded by online news. Tweets, posts, videos and alerts crowd our phone screen every moment of our waking (and sleeping) lives. The pervasive
MoveOn co-founder: Seeing the divinity in everyone might give our politics a new start
(RNS) — I’m a secular person. As a co-founder of MoveOn, the political organizing group, I’ve talked for years about how most people want to do good and aim to
Talking us out of #NuclearWar
After the article, you can explore our Living Room Conversations topic guide about Nuclear Weapons here. You may have missed the news last month, buried in the Trump administration’s budget
Getting Uncomfortable Together
Picture this: People are gathered around in the living room talking about politics. Or religion. You know, the big stuff that it seems like nobody agrees on. The people in
Divided America, difficult conversations: If you’re ready to have them, here’s how
If you knew Joan Blades, committed progressive, passionate climate change advocate, Berkeley, Calif., resident, you might think she would be feeling a little bit heartened by the results of this
It’s Time We Said ENOUGH to Cruelty and Propaganda
As we enter the last few days of the 2018 midterm elections, I am again wondering when will we, the American citizens, say “ENOUGH.” I say ENOUGH of: Manufactured outrage
The Possibility Exists That We’re All Part of the Problem
It is the last week before the election and the rhetoric has rarely been more rancorous. The murders in Pennsylvania and Kentucky and the targeted mail bombs have all of
Can Conversation Help Heal the Political Divide?
A new program creates friendships—and hope for a divided America. Who hasn’t been affected by the divisive nature of our political discourse these days? Friends, neighbors, and family of different
We Should All Speak to People We Don’t Agree With. Here’s How
The Better Arguments Project is a new national civic initiative created to help bridge ideological divides – not by papering over those divides but by teaching Americans how to have
Do conservatives feel the same fear and embarrassment as I do over President Trump?
President Donald Trump smiles as he walks on South Lawn of the White House on Feb. 2, 2018.Yuri Gripas / Reuters file Americans used to believe that the presidency was a
This California liberal wants you to burst her progressive bubble
Mismatch.org is part of Joan Blades’ plan to unite the world. Blades is a delightful mismatch of a person herself. She is a liberal and lifelong resident of Berkeley, California,
Bridging the Divide
The nation is deeply at odds over politics but one woman believes simple conversations can lessen the gap. Talk to nearly any academic or pollster about the political divide between
Come out of the political closet in 2018 and help heal our divide
Call it a domestic peace initiative: Stop judging people unkindly, start making real connections based on shared values. And we do have some. (Photo: Michael Mulvey, for USA TODAY) Countless
Nervous about your Muslim Neighbors? Then Invite Them Over for Dinner
by Kelsey Dalles, reprinted from desert news MILLCREEK — Moments before an interfaith gathering between Mormons and Muslims was slated to begin on the evening of June 4, volunteers were still
Don’t shoot! Just talk. How to debate politics politely in your living room.
by Debilyn Molineaux and Joan Blades, reprinted from The Fresno Bee. It’s like we live in “Groundhog Day.” Following this latest series of public shootings in San Francisco and Virginia, pundits will
Bridging The Divide One Living Room at a Time
by Sally Stephens, reposted from The SF Examiner. We are a deeply divided country. And yet, to solve the serious problems we face, we have to find some way to work
Terry McLaughlin: Living Room Conversations Offer Respectful Discourse
by Terri McLaughlin. reposted from The Union. With the explicit goal of improving the level of social discourse over public policy issues, Joan Blades of Berkeley, a political activist and former
Change, resentment and the hate in the air
So this driver is stopped at an intersection. A pedestrian is dawdling in the crosswalk. Driver leans out the window and yells, “Get out of the street, you damned liberal!”
Talk about it: Movement works to bridge political divisions through dialogue
Talk about it: Movement works to bridge political divisions through dialogue BY KARINA IOFEE, reposted from East Bay Times. BERKELEY — What do you get when you put a libertarian
Why I’ve left my liberal comfort zone – and found conservative friends
As the cofounder of Moveon.org, I’m steeped in progressive culture. I often hear the argument that we must overwhelm conservatives with greater numbers. But I ask my progressive friends to consider
Arlie Hochschild: Looking for answers from Berkeley to the Bayou
By Daphne White. Reprinted from Berkeleyside. UC Berkeley Sociologist Arlie Hochschild in her living room. Photo: Daphne White Berkeley sociologist Arlie Hochschild — author of the best-selling book Strangers in their Own
Let’s talk: The art of understanding and repairing our differences
By Robin Stern. Reprinted from The Hill. © Getty Images In the wake of the presidential election, feelings are running high in America, with half of the electorate rejoicing and the
Preserving Post-Election Harmony This Holiday Season
By Suzanne Potter. Reprinted from Public News Service. Experts have tips on how to politely discuss politics, if you must, with your relatives and coworkers during the holidays. (Dodgerton Skillhause/Morguefile) SANTA
Utah Citizen Summit explores ways to bridge state, nation after divisive election season
By Marjorie Cortez. Reprinted from KSL. SALT LAKE CITY — In what was part group therapy and part community conversation, participants in the Utah Citizen Summit spent a full day talking and
Election letter from the bishop of El Camino Real
By Mary Gray-Reeves. Reprinted from Episcopal News Service. We are the Solution: Election Day and Reconciliation Dear Friends, Besides our diocesan convention which begins tomorrow, our nation is very much
Eight Ways to Strengthen Our Democracy Beyond Voting
By Chuck Collins. Reprinted from CommonDreams. The strength of our civic life depends on what we do outside elections. ‘Especially after the deeply toxic experience of 2016,’ writes Collins, ‘we all need
How schools can bring civility to politics
With all the divisive rhetoric, sensationalist journalism, and inflamed passions during this election cycle, schools can be one of our saving graces. But only if teachers aren’t terrified about discussing
How will we heal our divided nation? Time to think post-2016 election
by Liz Hume. Reprinted from The Hill. As we inch closer to the U.S. presidential election, America has endured another week in which the politics of hate and fear have taken
Teaching the art of conversation during a divisive election year
By Jackie Zubrycki. Reprinted from Education Week. It’s often tough for teachers to figure out how to talk about political issues or current events in class. During a divisive election year,
Bringing civil conversations to schools
By Lauren Schiller. Reprinted from Inflection Point. Liberal activist Joan Blades co-founded MoveOn.org, Moms Rising.org and Living Room Conversations.org, to provide a guide for meaningful conversations between people with different views. Now,
How to reunite America by disagreeing agreeably
Could polarization be a prelude to a renewal of ‘From many, one?’ You bet it could. America’s polarity is achieving remarkable intensity, noted in many news stories, now vividly being
What is the future we want on nuclear weapons?
The future of America’s nuclear arsenal goes beyond presidential politics. It’s a conversation that all Americans need to be a part of. The generation that first built and deployed nuclear
A Berkeley Activist Tries to Bring Civility to the Trump Era
If you needed more proof that the country is painfully divided over politics, picture this. A former divorce mediator, trained in the art of keeping husbands and wives from throttling
Is there a Movement to Depolarize America?
A video clip of Ronald Reagan and George H.W. Bush answering questions about immigration at a 1980 debate is making the social media rounds, drawing attention not just for what would be
Living Room Conversations on The Future of Work
Several years ago my good friend Joan Blades co-founded a national nonprofit group called Living Room Conversations, or LRC, with the explicit goal of improving the level and quality of social discourse around
Living Room Conversations Builds Trust Across Differences Concerning CA Prison Policy
At CivilPolitics, one of our service offerings is to help groups that are doing work connecting individuals who may disagree about political and moral issues. These disagreements do not necessarily
This Is the One Thing the Right and Left Are Working Together On In Congress
There is gridlock in Congress. A Republican House can veto any progressive idea advanced by President Obama. The Democratic Senate and the presidential veto can shut down any conservative proposal
Breaking Partisan Gridlock Over a Cup of Tea
The headlines this week will be dominated by talk of partisan gridlock in Washington DC—Americans’ supposed representatives once again reflexively butting heads over ideology in lieu of actual problem solving.
A Living Room Conversation
I was raised in a Republican household and my dad was a paid speaker at Republican Conferences and events. I grew up in the 60s and have vivid memories of
Talk is Deep – An Interview with Joan Blades
In 1998, Joan Blades and Wes Boyd, co-founders of Berkeley Systems, a software company, drafted a one-sentence petition they hoped would end the public blood-letting and disruption of government that
MoveOn.org’s Co-Founder Has The Tea Party’s Co-Founder Over For…Tea
It was only a living room conversation. But: this living room conversation, earlier in the month, was between two clashing political titans: the co-founder of MoveOn.org, Joan Blades, and the co-founder of
MoveOn founder, Tea Party figure meet
It was a mind-blowing political tableau: a co-founder of liberal bulwark MoveOn sitting in her Berkeley living room, laughing, sharing homemade blueberry scones and occasionally agreeing with a national Tea Party figure.
Living Room Conversations and Changing the Political Culture
Joan Blades, founder of MomsRising.org, and guest speaker Jackie Salit, author of Independents Rising, hosted an event in San Francisco on Saturday to discuss a new political culture in America; one focused on
16 People and Organizations Changing the World in 2012
I recently invited people to share blog posts explaining How You Will Change the World in 2012 for the new Social Good Blog Series I launched earlier this month. Changing the World